Signs you are dealing with toxic person

 Do you ever wonder that why at least one person in your friends circle, family, relatives always wants to bring you down and  when you are happy they say something worst to ruin your happiness?

Actually they are the toxic person in your life.

Now what exactly the signs to know that you are dealing with toxic person?

1. They always start arguing with you.

Toxicity is when you are just explaining your point to someone and they think you are arguing with them or they think you are trying to teach them while you are just explaining your point. They want you to prove wrong every time you are explaining something. They turn normal and positive conversation into a bitter one. When ever you try to make them understand something they always come with such facts which can make everyone angry. They try their best to bring negativity in your life. Anything you say they take it personal. Ignore these people. Such people have something wrong in their mind set. 

2. They will never appreciate you.

Just remember that toxic person will never appreciate you no matter what you do. They will never accept your talent, creativity and intelligence. They always find faults in you and in your creativity. Instead of appreciating they would always bring you down. 

3. They take everything personal whatever you say

Whenever you are having a normal conversation with your colleagues or relatives, the toxic one will take everything to them whatever you say and start complaining to everyone that you are pointing out them. For example, if you were sharing just a normal thing on the side effects of smoking and if the toxic one in your gathering is habitual of smoking then he/she will burst out of anger that you are taunting them.

4. They make you vulnerable infront of everyone

They try their best to bring out your worst infront of others. They make you inferior and vulnerable infront of others by highlighting your insecurities. They make you vulnerable in front of others. They are always bitter and they have nothing positive to say. They are manipulated and make you feels like you are not enough for anything. 

5. Criticizing, misbehaving and afraid of your success.

The most common sign of toxic one is that these people always stay in search of chance to criticize you , humiliate you. No matter how perfectly you do your job and how much you are loyal to your work and your family ,they never miss a chance to criticize you. You are the worst person infront of them. Due to their jealousy they cannot see you successful. They could be your biggest haters.

6. They are your hidden admirers

The interesting thing is that one side the toxic one always discourage you, finding faults in you, make you feel unworthy, never admire you and become jealous of your success. But deep down they are your hidden admirers. They just don't accept it due to their toxic mind set.Their ego don't allow them to admire. While they also wants to be successful like you but since they cannot that's why they hate you.

A toxic person can be anyone including your family members,friends, co workers and even your own partner/spouse. Toxic people show their toxicity to satisfy their own ego and to hide their own insecurities and their failures. The best way to deal with toxic people is to ignore them because confronting them make your own yourself tired and exhausted.As Psychology says, if someone make you feel worthless then there is something wrong with themselves.