Do you ever wonder that why some people wants constant attention and they want to be centre of attraction all the time and everywhere? And we often call them attention seeker. They think that whole world revolves around them and everyone must praise them in any way.
Now the question is which factors leads to such toxic traits in one's personality?
This is because of over protective nature of parents which is a serious parental error. Their parents show extra care,love and support to their child which also makes them dependent,touchy and emotional. Parents blind love to their children create an emotional mess. This mess starts from childhood and create serious problems when comes to adulthood.
Now let's talk about several toxic traits of such attention seekers which affects their overall life:
1. Feelings of superiority:
He or she will never compromise on attention and love. They want constant attention, love,care and when they don't find such care and love they will show their tantrums everywhere to achieve attention and love.
They feels like they are the most superior and special than others. So that they want protocol in any social event or gathering.
Because of the immense adoration they enjoy from their parents they become selfish and self centered.
2. Over confident:
Since they are the attention seeker they become over confident and they have firm believe on themselves that they are the best ,and always right. While rest of the world is wrong except them. Their over confidence often leads them to unexpectedly resulted in any matter of their life.
3. Difficulty maintaining relationships:
These people often face difficulty in their personal relationships because they never admit that they are wrong no matter what. When they feels like they aren't getting enough attention from their friends or family they become aggressive and shows their emotional tantrum and start over thinking that people don't like them or they have some sort of jealousy with them.
Since they are over loved and adored from their childhood they used to be sensitive individuals.
Their loved ones finds it hard to stand with them. Since their parents always show extra support and care they expect same to the people around them. They think that their colleagues must also give them the same amount of support and care.
They are over reactive on smallest things. So it's become hard to make them understand. That's the reason they are often end up being alone.
4. Poor coping skills:
Since their parents do their best to secure them from stress and stressful situations. They usually have poor coping skills. They think someone else would come to solve their problems. They are indecisive and finds it difficult to take any important in decision because their parents never allow them to take decision to their own self.
Overprotective parents sometimes become the reason behind their kid's trauma and failures. It is unhealthy in every way. Too much of anything is harmful. Parents need to learn right parenting style which help their kids to stood in any moment of difficulty and can fight without the help of others.
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