From years i have been curious about what is happening in our society? What's wrong with our society. People all around the world are shattered,broken, depressed, traumatized and what not? From years I was in deep thought that why every person since their teenage is suffering from heart break? I mean why love become poison for everyone? Why everyone in this era become old soul? Why everyone on social media platform is complaining about love? Why the whole world has only one major grief which is LOVE?
Why majority of people on social media is complaining that the major reason behind their depression, anxiety or any Psychological trauma is the pain of love means everyone's story about depression start with the line that they faced failure in love i.e they are failed to live with that person whom they love whole heartedly.
People are sharing depressive post, poetries about heartache and when you ask them that what's the reason behind your sadness, depression and why you are so lonely ,the only answer you received from them in most of the cases that they are failed in love. Everywhere on social media people are posting about depression, anxiety, trauma and the only reason they mentioned behind their depression is breakup with their loved one. Even the social media is trying to convey a message among people through memes that the world has only problem left i.e love, romantic relationship.
Now the question is that what's wrong with the whole world?? Why everyone is rushing anxiously towards love and romantic relationship? Why everyone just wants to be in love with someone? Why everyone around us is falling so easily for love? Why everyone is heart broken? Why the whole world is creating panic by showing that being in a romantic relationship become utmost need of the person to survived? Why girls and boys now a days are involved in romantic relationship at very early age? Why the whole world is trying to induce in our mind that love is the only happiness while the rest of the things are useless?
Here I am highlighting those points which trigger the whole world to be involved in relationship and why being in love and relationship is creating mess and panic.
1. Role of social media:
Social media is creating panic in our lives. The use of social media become essential part of your life. We spent hours an hours using Facebook and other social sites. To share memes become our norms. Different memes,posts about relationship is promoting a culture that one should always have a girlfriend/boyfriend otherwise. A person must be in relationship to be happy,to celebrate their life, having a romantic relationship is the only thing left to celebrate while people who are single has nothing to celebrate. This is the reason that everyone is desperate to in relationship. Its feel like social media posts and memes about being in a relationship is trying to feed our minds that we can not be happy without being in a relationship. By reading post about relationships a person feels like having a romantic partner become mandatory no matter that what is your age.
2. Unloving attitude of parents/Family:
From different research it has been reported that people who don't have loving relationship with their parents and people whose childhood was full of trumatic experiences because their parents failed to give them adequate amount of love,care and attention and they have been a neglected child from childhood. Such people are prone to be easily get involved in relationship. As they are emotionally detached from their family, they only need someone to love them and give them attention. There is no doubt in that when person failed to receive the amount of love , attention and care from their own family then obviously they will search love everywhere in this world. This is the reason that why everyone is just falling for love because of the lack of love,care, attention from their own family. Due to the lack of attention and love people also become involved in abusive relationships and they have no idea that who is better partner for them and eventually such people become victim of depression or anxiety.
As we all know that the more we become active on social media the more we become alone in our real life. We don't have enough time for our family. We are just active on social media sites which is keeping us away physically and emotionally from our loved ones. We become emotionally deprived from the support of our loved ones and eventually people are in dire need of support. To fulfill their emotional needs we think that being in a relationship is the only option left.
To love and to be loved is a human need. We all crave for love and we can not survive normally without love. But the thing is that to find right person for yourself is all the matter of destiny. Instead of creating panic we must wait for right time to marry or to be in relationship. We need to be happy without the help of others because if you are not happy single then you won't be happy in relationship.
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